Adversity builds resilience and patience. Yet for me it needs a quite expensive coping mechanism that lead me more emotional and lack of self control.

So,

For me adversity teach me to think, to be aware and solve problem. Its not something we should endure if it can be solve right away.

Thats what I do.

I solve problem, and choose priority that I think is right.

Nobody could tell me what to do, I live my own life with my own judgement not them.

I choose for myself because they don’t live mine.